tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post9119740786957240686..comments2024-01-01T10:05:13.685-05:00Comments on YOUR DAILY DOSE: And this will make me feel happy... thanks Christine.Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14932408372240147454noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-91696835534711652402010-12-13T12:07:53.231-05:002010-12-13T12:07:53.231-05:00Sharon~ I think that you are right. It is freedom...Sharon~ I think that you are right. It is freedom so that it doesn't matter. In the light of day, I know that he is not the one I am mad at here.<br /><br />Carol ~ As always, you are making valid points. Just have to open my heart to them.<br /><br />Christine ~ You looked right through that and saw that I wasn't really mad about Flash, but I was pissed about HER. I haven't been mad about Flash for a LONG time. The only thing that has changed is her and her friend request. Then she says she contacted HIM to get my name. That temporally threw me back into wondering how his life was working out, but bottom line: I don't care. She is the one wanting to open lines of communication with me. And I was actually okay with it until she threw that bit in there about not remembering my name and contacting him. And then she says that they have sent "hello" messages back and forth. Well, my head hit the ceiling. That disaster nearly destroyed her marriage. Her husband got seriously violent as an alchoholic. I was worried for her safety as a person. And she and Flash are sending "hello" messages???? However, now things are great. Brand new house (there are pics), new business, new life. yippee. Meanwhile, on Flash's page, the world has gone crazy, too. He and his father are now in a loving relationship. He and the girl sending kissy messages. It appears the only person who is still experiencing fallout and doesn't have the PERFECT FREAKING LIFE is me. The NON-CHEATER. Do I expect things to come up roses for Flash? Yes. He is like my ex-husband. That is just how it works. If my ex ever played the lottery, he would win. That is just how lucky the man is. Goes to show that luck is not DESERVED. It is just luck. Flash is the same way. So, talking to HER just stirs it all up.Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14932408372240147454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-22636630509069162622010-12-13T11:58:48.449-05:002010-12-13T11:58:48.449-05:00I can't put it any better than Sharon above ha...I can't put it any better than Sharon above has. I'm one of those people who just won't wander back into the past...it's a rule of mine...stick to the present and your hopes for the future. I try and 'bury' stuff from the past especially if it comes with negativity.<br />People are strange aren't they? I can't imagine how someone that close can forget your name...well I forget alot of things now but not something that significant. Hmmm. I'm with Sharon...move on. he doesn't deserve you.<br />I came over to thank you for your great comment on my post...now I think I understand more about needing a 'mute' button. :)Carol E Wyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375439814725846546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-39464903154394699652010-12-13T10:25:56.087-05:002010-12-13T10:25:56.087-05:00Forgiveness, for me, is letting go of the emotiona...Forgiveness, for me, is letting go of the emotional attachment to a negative person. And, it has always been a process, with each round of remembering becoming a little less painful, until, at last, it just doesn't matter. As long as we are still hurt, angry, saddened by what someone else did, it gives them power over our lives. Release yourself from his grip, Robin. He doesn't deserve you.Sharonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02852119592451618703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-25758577974488360032010-12-13T00:52:19.434-05:002010-12-13T00:52:19.434-05:00Life can be tough like that....always realizing so...Life can be tough like that....always realizing something...always something to learn even when we least expect it, especially when we don't want to learn the lesson. You'll be fine.<br /><br />CCarolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00063098553066000836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-41785659366910152912010-12-12T23:55:10.037-05:002010-12-12T23:55:10.037-05:00lol...remember how nobly I forgave my stepfather.....lol...remember how nobly I forgave my stepfather..and had even contemplated benevolently bestowing upon him my gracious friendship and kind acceptence...<br />Yeah.<br />Sometimes we are too precious for our own good.<br />this chick and you had one thing in common. You both slept with the same dude..and whether she owed you anything or not, she still messed around with a dude ina relationship. Then she screwed around on her husband. she doesn't sound like good friend material, relationship material or quite frankly, good people material.<br />serial skank would be a more apt description. It's best to leave said skank in the dustbin of history. Come up with a good excuse..you know like the fact that yuo have serial migraines and are trying to get an important project off the ground and just don't have time to scrape your brain free from crud every two or three weeks...but thanks for thinking of you. lol. <br />signed <br />Robin whatevermylastnameisyoustupidskankChristinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.com