tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post8239134145914061531..comments2024-01-01T10:05:13.685-05:00Comments on YOUR DAILY DOSE: DAY 26: DEAR PINKY PROMISERobinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14932408372240147454noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-80580890835463107952010-10-20T13:55:01.144-04:002010-10-20T13:55:01.144-04:00H-girl needs you desperately, even if she isn'...H-girl needs you desperately, even if she isn't going to share with you. Just being there is all you can do right now, and more of a gift than others seem to be offering ....Yenta Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573241381406620036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-64548798265218473132010-10-20T10:58:25.432-04:002010-10-20T10:58:25.432-04:00i'm sorry...nothing hurts worse than worry for...i'm sorry...nothing hurts worse than worry for our sweet ones. praying it works out for all of you.Farmgirl Paintshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17205054615599523192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-246931723072921902010-10-20T10:22:39.437-04:002010-10-20T10:22:39.437-04:00you had me in tears in that I believe you will get...you had me in tears in that I believe you will get that sweet girl back...Her father probably is not giving her the help she needs just keep on praying that everything gets better, I know I will be hang in and it will..I am sure she is not that mean girl sounds like she just needs some love inher life and is not getting it from him...Pamela Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08808030881673557371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-83224722182990223482010-10-20T03:23:47.761-04:002010-10-20T03:23:47.761-04:00You mentioned before that her biological mother is...You mentioned before that her biological mother is practically non-existent...perhaps this is her cry. Her shriek to the world to notice her. Has her father seen a counsellor? Not for her but for him to get advice? Does he REALLY care or is he just as indifferent as the biological mother? Or are you the only one who gives a damn? I don't think this is JUST about grades. <br /><br />This kid seems to have grown up way too fast, grown out of pinky promises. There is so much going on here. 1) Try to understand her 2) accentuate the positives. Surely there is something she likes. Maybe art or fashion or whatever, surely there's an interest you can tap into! 3) BE THERE! EVEN IF SHE KEEPS SHUTTING YOU OUT! Please be there! Hang in there...<br /><br />Someday, she'll remember the pinky promise.Purple Cowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11016727639028322093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-16297379329126550492010-10-20T00:55:36.238-04:002010-10-20T00:55:36.238-04:00That's so sad. I hope she wakes up and realiz...That's so sad. I hope she wakes up and realizes she has a problem.Miss Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02824804006455085251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-89966352567219615392010-10-19T23:28:27.628-04:002010-10-19T23:28:27.628-04:00Robin: So much I would like to say, but you have a...Robin: So much I would like to say, but you have as many answers as we all do. Tough times.JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14692103477055483000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-5228451538043557102010-10-19T21:39:06.646-04:002010-10-19T21:39:06.646-04:00Her father can't see that she is in serious tr...Her father can't see that she is in serious trouble and I can't get her to talk to me. I honestly don't know what to do...Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14932408372240147454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-75947372375616830012010-10-19T21:27:12.384-04:002010-10-19T21:27:12.384-04:00ah hon, someone needs to get in there and set a co...ah hon, someone needs to get in there and set a course correction soon. I don't know how that is going to happen. I hope her dad makes it happen.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8318801159753696568.post-70743565575153888032010-10-19T19:45:32.783-04:002010-10-19T19:45:32.783-04:00This post made me sad. I always imagined (well, ok...This post made me sad. I always imagined (well, okay, I didn't have to imagine) that being on the bullied end of it when it came to school is the worst thing ever. But for the first time I get that being the parent of the bully is just as sucky. Kids who are bullies are afraid and they lash out at those they feel are weaker - and it must be heartbreaking to a parental figure who is trying as hard as you are, Robin, and still wonder if that's what's going on.<br /><br />I hope H-Girl grows out it, as you said, because being a bully is such a heavier burden than being bullied. And I hope she knows one day how much you love her.Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07477498671080132176noreply@blogger.com